15 THINGS TO DO WHILE STAYING AT HOME

 
Photography by Lauren Lucile Creative

Photography by Lauren Lucile Creative

Since many of us are staying at home for the foreseeable future, I know we can find ourselves caught between trying to be productive but also at a loss of what to do during this uncertain time. I think now more than ever, it’s important to fill our days with activities that can make us feel productive yet happy. This new normal is hard for all of us. And honestly, some days are easier than others. I know for me personally, incorporating more self care has helped ease my anxiety and made me feel better.

And since I know we’re all looking for ways to fill our time. I thought I would share a list of things you can do while being at home. I hope you find this to be helpful. And feel free to share with friends or loved ones also needing ideas.

15 THINGS TO DO WHILE PRACTICING SOCIAL DISTANCING

  1. Organize your makeup/skincare products. And throw out any old or expired items. Here are a few organizers from Amazon: here, here and here.

  2. Give yourself a manicure. Check out Paintbox Nails Instagram for some design inspo.

  3. Listen to a new podcast. Here are a few of my favorites.

  4. Learn a NEW skill. Brit + Co is offering FREE courses with PROMO CODE: SELFCARE through 4/09.

  5. Organize and print photos from your phone using Chatbooks.

  6. Host a virtual Happy Hour with Friends using Zoom, FaceTime or Google Chat.

  7. Go through old cookbooks to find a new recipe to try. Or search Pinterest for some recipe ideas.

  8. Send handwritten cards to family and long-distance friends.

  9. Try an at home facial. One of my favorite bloggers, Courtney Kerr recently posted a video on how to accomplish this at home spa treatment.

  10. Unsubscribe from all of those unwanted emails. Here is a service you can use for FREE to help manage your inbox.

  11. Listen your favorite audiobooks on Audible. If you have Amazon Prime, you can try Audible FREE for 30 days.

  12. Bake up a new cookie recipe. MILK BAR founder, Christina Tosi is posting recipes and tutorials of their most popular cookies on their Instagram account.

  13. Try a new workout. A few classes you can try at home and stream online; Rumble Boxing, Tone It Up, CorePower Yoga and 305 Fitness.

  14. Perfect your skincare routine and use all of your face masks you’ve been compiling.

  15. Pour a glass of wine and light your favorite scented candle for a moment to yourself.

What have you been doing to keep yourself occupied during this time? Have you tried any of the above yet?!

XO, Dana Rae

MY FIRST SPEED DATING EXPERIENCE IN THE CITY

 
Photography by Lauren Lucile Creative

Photography by Lauren Lucile Creative

Since moving to New York 5+ years ago, dating hasn’t been a huge priority for me. Being in a long term relationship in my 20s consumed me and I found that I had lost myself in the process. I was so wrapped up in my end goal of getting married and having babies, that I didn’t even see a life outside of that scenario. So when I decided to move to NYC, I wanted to focus more on myself and what made me happy outside of being in a relationship.

Being SINGLE has actually been freeing for me. It’s made me more aware of myself and realize what I really am looking for in a partner rather than what I once was willing to settle for. But as much as I enjoy being Single, I do ultimately want to find someone to share my life with. The hard part is meeting good quality guys. Dating nowadays is so much different than it was say 10 years ago. I mean, where do you meet guys without having to swipe right or spend your weekends at the bars?!

Which leads me to my recent adventure of, SPEED DATING.

A friend of mine had brought up the idea of going speed dating in casual conversation and I’m pretty sure my intial response was something like “sure”. But after she approached me again about it I figured, what the hell? After all, I’m not meeting any men at my local Trader Joes.

Ater a week of back and forth, we decided on a date and time to try a local speed dating event in the city hosted by NY MINUTE DATING. This particular event was geared toward 30s and 40s professionals and would take place on a Friday night from 7-9pm.

HOW IT WORKS:

Cost: $35 paid online prior to event

Location: Local Hotel Bar in the city (varies depending on event type)

Duration: 2 hours total including a 10 minute break. Each date is timed for 5 minutes.

When we arrived, we were immediately greeted by two women from NY MINUTE DATING hosting the event. We were then asked to write our names onto name tags and given a ‘MATCH CARD’ to fill out with the names of each date and circle the names of the guys we were interested in being matched with.

Seating was arranged where ladies were given the chance to choose a table of their liking and remain seated during the entire event. The guys are instructed to switch to the table to their RIGHT every 5 minutes after each date.

Since it was located at a bar, alcohol was available for purchase. Although in my opinion, it would have been nice if they had included 1-2 drinks within the price of the event.

NY Speed Dating

Since my friend and I arrived a few minutes early to the event, we grabbed a drink at the bar and then decided to sit next to each other at two of the high top tables. As more women started to arrive, we noticed that majority of them also brought a friend.

After waiting a few minutes, the men started arriving. And shortly after, the hosts made an announcement to begin the speed dating.

Surprisingly I didn’t feel that nervous, and as each guy moved over to my table next, I felt more and more comfortable. There ended up being 13 dates total. Each one lasting 5 minutes, giving time for only basic questions like; “Where do you live?”, “What do you do for work?”, “What do you like to do for fun?” etc.

As we approached the 1/2 way mark, a guy who immediately caught my attention sat down and started talking, only to be interrupted by the hosts calling out a 10 minute break. As most of the other guys opted to get up and take a bathroom break or grab another drink at the bar, he chose to continue to sit with me. As we sat there and talked for a few minutes, he then all of a sudden got up and said he would be right back. Leaving his empty beer bottle on the table, I thought maybe he needed to grab another one from the bar. But after 2 or 3 minutes, the host came over to me and said “I’m sorry, your date had an emergency.” I immediately thought to myself, “WOW, he actually used that excuse?!” So there I sat, alone for the next few minutes sipping my vodka and texting my friends what happened to have a laugh.

By the end of the last date, I was happy that I had put myself out there. And even though I didn’t feel enough of a connection with any of the guys for a second date, I would still do it again. I mean, where else can you go on 13 dates in one night? Typically that would take a few weeks to accomplish. So not only did I save myself from wasting several nights out, but I also only had to get dressed and put makeup on once. WIN WIN, right?!

So if you’re looking to get back into the dating scene, I highly recommend speed dating. You never know, you may just meet your match.

Have you ever been speed dating before?! If yes, what was your experience like?

XO, Dana Rae

5 PHOTOSHOOT TIPS FOR BLOGGERS

 
7 PHOTOSHOOT TIPS FOR BLOGGERS

I am SO excited to be collaborating with my photographer and friend, Lauren, from Lauren Lucile Creative for today’s blog post. We are each sharing our tips and tricks for getting the most out of photoshoots. Lauren is a self taught photographer who has an eye for detail and is not afraid to get creative when it comes to getting ‘THE SHOT’! And as a blogger, I’ve learned from trial and error when it comes to capturing the perfect photo(s) for a blog post or social media.

I first met Lauren back in January of this year, after she reached out to me via Instagram. A few days later, we met for coffee in SoHo to chat in person and do a test shoot. We ended up sitting inside Pietra Noilta for about an hour and then Lauren snapped a few photos of me outside the very instagramable pink cafe. We immediately hit it off and I remember leaving their that day, feeling excited about the pictures we had just taken. Lauren sent me the photos later that same day and I was instantly impressed by her talent in capturing my personality as well as her editing skills. Not to mention, her quick turnaround time. We ended up chatting over the next week and decided to schedule an hour photoshoot for February. From that day on, we became fast friends and have gone on to do several more photoshoots. 

Admittedly, I was a little reluctant at first to hire a professional photographer. A few reasons being: 1) The cost. 2) Fear of being judged for not being a seasoned blogger who was comfortable in front of the camera. 3) I wasn’t initially convinced that I needed professional level photos as an up and coming blogger. But after working with a professional (aka Lauren) a couple of times, I quickly realized the impact that professional photos had. The images were definitely better quality compared to using my iPhone camera. The sizing of the images were perfect for my social media channels as well as for blog posts. And since Lauren edits all the images, it has helped me to create an aesthetic with all of my images that I use for social media (especially Instagram). Which in the end, saves me so much time and money from using editing apps and doing it myself. I have also noticed a higher engagement rate on social media when posting the professional photos. And as a content creator, brands often prefer to have campaigns shot with a professional camera. So overall, it’s been one of the best investments hiring Lauren to take my photos. 

My confidence is also been something that has improved significantly with each photoshoot. Before, I would see photos of myself and pick apart every aspect of what I didn’t like. Especially being a curvy woman, I tend to be really hard on myself if I see an angle or pose that isn’t flattering. But overtime, I have learned what my best angles are, how to pose with my body type and how to just have fun in the moment during shoots. Looking back over the year, I can definitely see the growth in my photos with how much more comfortable I am. So much so, that I recently framed two 8x10 prints from Lauren and I’s most recent photoshoot and hung them in my bedroom. A year ago, I wouldn't have had the confidence to display full body photos of myself anywhere in my apartment.

And after working together for the better part of 2019, Lauren and I decided that we should put our knowledge together and create a reference guide for both Bloggers and Photographers to utilize. Below I’ll be sharing my tips for bloggers to get the most out of your photoshoot. Then make sure to head over to Lauren’s site to read her tips and download her style guide (included in her blog post) for your next photoshoot!


Tips for Bloggers: 

  1. Try on outfits ahead of time. Once you’ve chosen your outfits that you want to wear for the shoot, go ahead and try them on. Especially if you’ve chosen to buy new clothes that you’ve never worn before. Also make sure to Include accessories, shoes and makeup to coordinate. Then take a photo of yourself to make sure that you like how the outfit looks and fits on you. This will help give you a visual of what everything looks beforehand and give you time to make any edits before the day of the photoshoot. 

  2. Practice posing. I can’t recommend this enough especially if you’re new to working with a photographer. It’s much harder than it looks when you have to start standing in front of the camera. You’re worried about which angle is being shot, how your hair looks, if your lipstick is smudged, all while trying to walk with props in hand and trying to not look awkward doing so. It may seem so much easier seeing other bloggers in their photos pose “perfectly”. But chances are, they have mastered their pose(s) over time. My advice is to get in front of a mirror and practice walking, find your best angles and pose in different positions until you feel comfortable. You can also set up your phone to record a video while you practice posing and play it back to see how it looks. Trust me, if you get in front of a camera and feel awkward, it will show in your photos. 

  3. Select location & map it out. I always like to visit the location of the photoshoot prior to the actual shoot day (if time allows). This helps me to get a visual of different backgrounds I want to capture in my photos. If shooting multiple outfits, I’ll also make notes of which outfits I want to wear according to the different spots I find. This not only puts me at ease the day of the shoot by having a plan in place, but also saves so much time when shooting while allowing some room for creativity. I never have to stop and search for the next spot to take photos during the photoshoot. Once I have everything planned out, I’ll type it up in a phone note and send to Lauren ahead of time. This way we both go into the session knowing what to expect. And because I’m very TYPE A…I’ll also write out a more detailed list to have with me the day of the shoot. I prefer to write everything out on paper with location(s), outfit changes, campaign specifics that I need to capture in photos and any other helpful details to keep me on track during the photoshoot. It can often get hectic with trying to do everything once you’re on site. And having a list to reference helps ensure you get the most out of your time and your photographer’s time. 

  4. Save photos on Instagram or Pinterest for inspo. Whenever I’m scrolling through social media and see photos that inspire me for an upcoming photoshoot, I’ll save them to my phone. Then I’ll send them to Lauren ahead of time or show her on day of shoot. It’s helpful to give a visual of what I’m trying to capture. But also keeping in mind that you shouldn’t expect it to come out exactly the same, nor should you want to 100% replicate someone else's work. So many things go into creating a photo and so many factors affect the outcome of a picture (weather, crowds, construction, store closing, other nyc things). But sometimes it’s nice to use other images as inspo and then put your own spin on it. You always want to be unique and showcase your personality in your photos. 

  5. Communicate with your photographer. It’s important to be open and upfront about any concerns or questions you have. Discuss what your best angles are, things you may want to hide or conceal in photos, what you’re trying to convey with your photos, what content your photos will be used for, etc. This will help your photographer have a better idea of what your expectations are and how they can capture the best shots of you.



Lastly, have FUN!! On the day of the shoot, go into it prepared and open minded. And don’t be afraid to be playful! Sometimes the most unexpected shots become the best ones overall. 

PRO TIP:

Invest in a Pop-Up Pod (portable changing tent). Some photographers may provide this for you. However, I highly suggest getting one to have for yourself. It’s a lifesaver when it comes to changing outfits in public. Especially since there isn’t always a public restroom available when on location at your photoshoot. Another time saving tip!


Here is a look at some of my personal favorites from Lauren and I’s photoshoots over the past year!

And if you’re in need of a photographer, reach out to Lauren directly via email or DM her on Instagram. (Tell her I sent ya!)

Pietro Noita 2019

Jan. 2019

Pietro Nolita in SoHo, NY

Valentines Photoshoot 2019

Feb. 2019

Meaux Space (Privant Event Space located in Chelsea, NY)

Meaux Space Photoshoot 2019

Feb. 2019

Meaux Space (Privant Event Space located in Chelsea, NY)

NYC subway 2019

March 2019

NYC Subway

Luggage photoshoot 2019

March 2019

Washington Heights, NY

March photoshoot 2019

March 2019

Washington Heights, NY

Wolffer Winery photoshoot 2019

July 2019

Wölffer Estate Vineyard in Sagaponak, NY

Central Park Fall Photoshoot 2019

Oct. 2019

Central Park, NY

R+Co Campaign 2019

Oct. 2019

R+Co Hair Campaign 2019

Central Park fall Photoshoot 2019

Oct. 2019

Bow Bridge in Central Park, NY

Central Park Photoshoot 2019

Oct. 2019

Bethesda Terrace Stairs in Central Park, NY

Central Park Photoshoot 2019

Oct. 2019

Bethesda Terrace in Central Park, NY

   XO, Rae